KHUDA JAB HUSN DETA HAI NAZAKAT AAHI
JATI HAI…
Indeed; when
God blesses one with beauty ( power ) the delicacies ( tantrums!) come along with it! The second line of the
couplet sums up the thought ! Kadam ruk ruk ke chalte hain kamar bal khahi
jati hai! Meaning that the feat move slowly and there comes grace in
one’s gait! Superficially the couplet is addressed to women, but it is implicit far and wide. It
applies to all men and women who falter on attaining power. Be it in terms of money or fame. This
simple couplet contains the truth
behind the fallacy of the world and cautions us to be restrained and
controlled. And yet we all ,naturally move toward arrogance ,haughtiness ,
detachment with elevation in our station! The degree varies but change there is
definite. Few may be able to hide their new born status but it is difficult to
escape this change.
This change is manifested physically in the
style of living, tastes, wearing of clothes etc which is understandable but is
visible in the intellectualization. These newly cast rich and powerful have an
opinion on many matters of State. They are philosophical on issues and the most
harmful and despicable are those who start lecturing on the subject of honesty, harmony in society ,
cleanliness, causes of unemployment, reasons of the poverty of our Nation. Many
may have been corrupt to the core and may still be but their public face
changes. So many leaders of the organization I have observed who are victim of such dualism. They may be parochial , perennially prejudiced and castist ( racist!)but sermonise
on merit and efficiency. This is what ‘nazakat’
means! The sub-text of the couplet is very strong!
Perhaps some
examples would be appropriate : take the Cinema. We have had so many stars/directors/writers
rising from humble background. First they become actors, initially they are
shaky, gawky, unsure . During such times they touch feet of all prominent
directors, address them as sir! Are embodiment of politeness, dedication ,
attentiveness and what not! Cometh power and there is distinct change, and as
success increases the change ( or deterioration ) is proportionate . There is
money, then they start interfering in the script , some of them become writers and producers themselves, for more control and
power and money and then they are full of themselves. They stop acting but
imitating themselves. This is called ‘kamar
ka bal khana’. If we assess their contribution to cinema it would be of
that period when they were finding their feet or when they were not affected by
‘nazakat’.
Have we not witnessed this among the
Industrialists/politicians. Many have come from humble background. By illicit
means they expand and acquire power and pelf. Then they open schools ,colleges,
hospital and other charitable/profitable institutions. On their death the Prime
Minister and the President mourn. And on their death anniversary the national
dailies are full of tribute and they are hailed as ‘Karmyogis!’ This is what I
implied by ‘nazakat’ and ‘kamar ka bal khana’ when God gives us beauty ,meaning
power.
Rahim has
very succulently said in his couplet (
doha):
jo Rahim Ocho badhyo so ati itraye; jaise pyada farzi banyo ter o mero jaye
( Rahim says that shallow people show- off/ get intoxicated ( nazakat !) by power similar to the
pawn in a game of chess when it becomes a knight and goes in all the
directions! ).
Thank you for this, it's very helpful. Why I was reading this is because I have had someone say this to my daughter when she was 1 - 2 yrs old and not only once, but 2, 3 times. I felt like she has an underlying problem with my daughter. She has two girls herself of slightly older age. How does one interpret this when said to a child? Yes this aunty is from my in laws, I've had a very rough time with them.
जवाब देंहटाएंSir, Sir, in the very first line you write "feat", I think you mean "feet".
जवाब देंहटाएं